AMAZING TED TALKS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD WATCH!

Feeling spiritless? Feeling unmotivated? Feeling enervated? Then the best way to get over all kinds of depression is to watch a ted talk and get a fresh dose of vitamin M (motivation) which would instill a new desire and trigger you to action. Here is a collection of amazingly inspiring and uplifting talks that can pep you up, instantly.

1.Mel Robbins: How to Stop Screwing Yourself Over

Mel Robbins in her talk, speaks about uniqueness of every individual on this planet and how every person deserves the best of both worlds. Every person is loaded with millions of life changing ideas but still, most live ordinary lives.  The major reason, as pointed out by Mel is the delusion in our minds according to which we keep on waiting to ‘feel like doing it’ .She highlights the need of forcing yourself, to do things that would help in achieving goals. Concluding with her 5 second rule, she teaches us everything in just one line “It’s simple, not easy”.

2. Roxane Gay: Confessions of a Bad Feminist

Roxane gay in 11 minutes succeeds in inducing a thought, about the differences between a good and a bad feminist. She considers herself a bad feminist because she fights for the rights of white as well as black women, unlike others. Adding humor she recites lyrics of some extremely popular tracks and also targets GOT(Game of Thrones) as a way of objectifying women. She assures that feminism comes in various ways and it is more important to support women instead of focusing on the way they adopt, for doing so.

3. Meg Jay: Why 30 Is Not The New 20

Meg‘s talk hovers around the story of two ‘twenty or something’ girls who are initially broke and how gradually she helps them discover the ways to return their lives back on track. She highlights the need to take up and excel in things which you like, in twenties itself rather that procrastinating your dreams to thirties. Backing up with facts she says that this is the right age to make amazing transformations for own self as well as for the society. Jay asks all the young people to claim their adulthood, build identity capital, learn, explore, pick their family and give themselves a new definition NOW, hence proving that 30 is not the new 20.

4. Tracy McMillan: The Person You Really Need to Marry

Tracy turns her tragic story into a humorous one by declaring herself an inappropriate person to give relationship advice being a 3 time divorcee. She talks about her family background and why she kept making mistakes in selecting the right partner all this time. And then she shares the experience of acknowledging the most important relationship i.e. ‘the one we have with ourselves’. Tracy tells that the bond to be cherished always is the one you share with yourself because at the end it will be only you with yourself.

5. Ruth Chang: How to Make Tough Choices

One choice isn’t always better than the other. Philosopher Ruth Chang says, once we realize that, it’s easier to embrace the hard work of decision-making. In an easy choice one is better than the other. In a hard choice each choice has better qualities, but neither is clearly better which brings us back to the drawing board. We think of them as big choices, but we need to see hard choices as empowering. If life only consisted of easy choices, we would always pick the clearly better route. We would then be slaves to our own reasons. 
When the ‘correct’ and ‘incorrect’ choices disappear, we have the power to create reasons for ourselves, and become the distinctive people we are. That is why hard choices are not a curse but a godsend.